Family and Children
Raised to believe that every Filipino is an uncle, aunt, cousin, lolo (grandfather) or lola (grandmother), the family remains central throughout life for most Filipinos. Major personal decisions often reflect the family consensus.
Filipino tradition dictates that almost every member of the family, especially the older generations in deference to their experience and wisdom , be informed and consulted regarding the younger family member’s success and failure. For most Filipinos, it is not enough that family members assume responsibility for each other; family obligations must also take precedence over one’s civic responsibility, obligations to the employer, or personal preference.
Authority in a Filipino home tends to gravitate toward age, and usually the males. The females are often protected and cherished extending over matters of chastity and safety. Therefore, ama (the father) as the oldest male family member is always followed, never questioned. This does not mean, however, that ina (the mother) has no voice in her home as she is often the one who regulates the household, including the family budget.
Children are given very little independence and are often raised to be quiet, submissive and cooperative.
Now, I know some of you are going to react with this generalization. But, I feel this is pretty accurate. No matter how modern we become as a nation. This is still our heritage and our culture in general.
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