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Here are 6 phrases that define a Filipino in both Social Interactions and Relationships

Utang na loob meaning “debt of gratitude” or “reciprocity.” It is a network of favors asked and favors repaid. The “payment” is dependent on one’s ability to pay, and does not have to be in material form. Filipinos are honored to be asked a favor and in the same way, not embarrassed to ask for a favor in return.
Pakikisama meaning “smooth social interaction.” This could mean one will go along the consensus of the group, even act pleasantly, when he feels hostile. He rarely raises his voice and is careful about criticizing others. On the job, he often uses euphemisms in order to preserve a working relationship, i.e., no public reprimand of a subordinate.
Hiya meaning “shame or embarrassment”. Most Filipinos will avoid shaming or embarrassing others because he is sensitive to embarrassment himself. Some Filipinos are balat-sibuyas (easily offended) and apologies do not always repair the damage done.
Amor propio meaning “self esteem.” Pricked amor propio can cause sudden violence in Filipino interpersonal relations. A Filipino is actually expected by other Filipinos to be sensitive to feelings of others, to avoid hurting the amor propio.
Bayanihan is “cooperative labor” especially in a community project. Filipinos will often help each other as a group to effect the good of a person, a family or a community.
Bahala Na loosely translated “Come What May”. This is the term that is very often used when all else fails, when you have done all you could, it doesn’t matter because fate will take over. Sort of a comfort in a sense, that wills the filipino, that gives them a sort of perseverence.

Isn’t it amazing that such a complex heritage such as ours, such a long history of Philippine culture can be summed up in these 6 phrases?

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